Six ways to build your humility muscle
4. Focus on loving and respecting others.
People quickly forget the deceased, even if they were remarkable. We don’t know who wrote the Vedas or built the pyramids. We ought to realise a bitter truth: our so-called successes mean nothing to others unless they benefit from them. Instead, people want to know how much you love and respect them and how good you make them feel. If you leave others feeling inferior and hurt, you fail colossally, despite your achievements.
5. Use your power with empathy.
Greatness is not in the conquest of empires through bloodshed and war. I remember a video of a baby elephant’s friendship with a four-year-old human child when I think of greatness. While playing hide-and-seek, the elephant playfully lifted the child’s cap with her trunk, hid it in her mouth, and then presented it to the puzzled child like a magician. The toddler giggled. Next, the baby elephant gently rested her foot on the toddler’s chest as he lay back, smiling. My heart skipped a beat, fearing a misstep could crush him. Yet, the video zoomed in, revealing her quiet wisdom and care. She barely touched his chest, exerting no pressure, displaying a tender act of trust. The baby elephant did not need to show her power to a friend. She knew she was more powerful, but instead of displaying it, she exercised caution and ensured the child’s safety.
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